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Sacred Sexuality for men who desire to become more skillful in the art of lovemaking and wish to deepen their capacity to experience deeper intimacy with themselves and a partner   

 

If you feel there is more to sex and you know deep down inside that its possible to experience sex and intimacy that opens your heart, enlivens your body,, invites more sensuality, passion and eroticism into your relationship then tantra will greatly benefit you!

  

TANTRA SESSIONS : LEVEL 1 - Foundational Tantra PractIces for Men  

These sessions are for men who are either new to tantra or have explored tantra, or other types of sacred sexuality practices a little bit, however you feel ready to dive in deeper and really understand how to . . . . .

- deepen your capacity for intimate connection with yourself & your partner
- learn ejaculation control and last longer to experience deeper, more connected sex
- receive education and empowerment about your pleasure
- understand how your undivided grounded presence creates more safety and trust with your lover
- explore sexual polarity between the masculine and feminine to generate more attraction and passion in your relationship

 

 

YOU WILL ALSO LEARN 

- The differences between male and female arousal anatomy and how this affects turn on
- L
earn about the 3 main types of orgasm for men, are ejaculatory, non-ejaculatory and prostate orgasms

- How to hold space in your relationship in a way that creates more safety and trust
- Experience circulating sexual energy through your whole body and experience and energetic orgasm
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Understand the differences between the 3 main types of orgasm for men, ejaculatory, non-ejaculatory and prostate orgasms

- Grow your ability to authentically share your heart in moments of intimate connection
- Explore how to penetrate your lover and the world from a place of authentic embodied masculine presence

Tantric sex is about being in the moment with each other and as the man, you need to know how to lead your partner deeper into her heart, into her body and into her pleasure than she can lead herself 

 

THIS MEANS MOVING BEYOND GOAL ORIENTATED SEX SO THAT YOU CAN TRANSFORM SEX INTO LOVEMAKING 

 

"When you add soul to sex, it's not sex anymore - it's god" ....Jeff Brown

Tantric practice for men is more than just learning how to become a deep, skillful and amazing lover,

Relationships require nurturing for intimacy and love to grow and blossom, so men also need to develop awareness of themselves and who they are as a person, as well as an awareness of their own relationship patterns and recognize how these affect their ability to create connection with a partner in moments of intimacy, as well as be able to soothe her nervous sytem with embodied presence in moments of conflict.

Men, I invite you to scan your relationship for any places you know you have brought less than your deepest intention to love your partner and ask yourself this question: Q: how deeply have you penetrated her heart,her mind, her body and her soul?

How deeply have you offered sensitive inquiry into each others connection needs,
How deep is your space holding for the vulnerable sharing of fears, the communication of healthy boundaries,
How deep is your devotion to your pattner in offering of ways to connect when sex is off the table

This relational piece is one of the most essentual skills for men to cultivate and thsi work is praciced outside of the bedroom

Your capacity to penetrate your lover (physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually) is your inner warrior work and it's where the boy meets the man!
A lack of deep, trustable, undivided and embodied masculine presence, . . attracts its reciprocal
A lack of wide open hearted, surrendered, devotional, passionate feminine erotic energy 

 

THE NEXT LEVEL - THE MULTIORGASMIC MAN 

Men are still learning about their sexual potential and when it comes to sex, most of men don't actually know what is possible and are unware that there are at least 3 main types of orgasm for men, are ejaculatory, non-ejaculatory and prostate orgasms, ( and yes, there are more)!

Men's sexual education has been influenced and limited by culture, societal norms and expectations, patriarchy, family and generational patterning, gender role modelling, pornography (porn changes a man's brain chemistry & encourages disconnection in his relationship). an its time to change and upgrade this legacy.



ADVANCED BODY SESSIONS FOR MEN
TRADITIONAL TANTRA MASSAGE SESSIONS
PREREQUITE -  These body temple sessions are ONLY offered as a session on their own of you have competed the foundational sessions. 

 

In a tantric massage your entire body is massaged. the overall goal of the massage is to generate sexual energy and circulate it around your body so that you can experience E-X-P-A-N-D-E-D pleasure throughout your whole body.

NOTE: This in NOT an erotic massage with a happy ending,  
THIS IS A NON-EJACULATORY TRADITIONAL TANTRIC MASSAGE
that offers a man the expereince of a full body energetic orgasm without ejaculation

 

SACRED SPOT / PROSTATE MASSAGE SESSIONS 

Massaging the man's sacred spot releases tremendous amounts of  emotional and physical tension and stress. Coupled with stimulation of his "lingam", massaging his prostate can be extremely pleasurable and healing for a man. Since the most direct way to massage the man's Sacred Spot is through his anus, it takes time to adjust to being penetrated in this way. It is not for every man. Massaging the sacred spot can be a powerful experience for men and the pleasure they experience can be can be intense and profoundly beautiful.

DISCLAIMER - A Prsotate Massage is not a medical remedy and it is not a medical practiced procedure,
if you experiencing prostate challenge
s, please seek medical advice before experoencing a TANTRIC prostate massage
 

 

If you feel you're ready for the challenge of learning how to make love from a place of essence, a place of love,a place of sacredness and soul,  book a sesion with Lani 

 

 

 

 

BOOKING SESSIONS 

How long is a tantra session?
Tantra sessions are approximately 90 minutes

 What is the Price of a Session?
Contact Lani for prices

                                                             Where is Lani located?
Newcastle, NSW Australia
 
                                                             How do I contact Lani?
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